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Dear Omar
My lover and I have been together for about 7 years, and recently have stopped having sex, yet he doesn't want to break it off. I'm not so sure what I want to do. We still love each other but we are no longer in love. Is this normal for long term relationships? Should I hang in there? LA
Dear LA
Sounds like its just a case of the seven year itch, what I think you should do is talk with your man and find out is he just not sexual or if he's just doesn't want to be with you if it's the latter then you set a date to seduce your man.
You arrange for you both to get out of work early one day and you slip on the new pair of see through panties you order online call the Chinese take out and have them deliver and you seduce your man.
You see passion and excitement doesn't just happen. You must work on it everyday you must flirt with each other let each other no how much they mean to you.
If you truly care for each other then you know that working on your relationship is done everyday.
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Dear Omar
I am a much older gay male living with 2 younger roommates I have to follow behind them and fighting with them about keeping up on bills and keeping the house clean.
We all moved in together because of our own current financial situations, but I'm paying all the bills trying to keep things going then I am waiting on them for their half of the rent, as if I have nothing better to do with my own money what should I do? HELP!
Dear HELP
Sounds to me like you in a your in a bit of a situation, You need to sit down with your roommates an explain that rent and house hold bills are due a the 1st. Of the month if your roommates are looking for some one to take care of then they either need to find a sugar daddy or go back to their Mamas and Daddy's. And that you aren't doing it then make sure you stop.
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Dear Omar
I am a 36-year-old gay male that works at the airport and I made friends with a young lady there that I now find out has been saying things about me to other people, things I may have told her in private should I confront her about it or let it pass? What-do-I-do
Dear What-do-I-do
This is a tuff one and will take some fiancé, because the whole situation sound bad. 1st off you never share anything you want repeated and second because people talk women/men people talk. 2nd what did you share and how it will effect you if people know about it, is it something new that has just effected you or is it something that time has now healed. Don't get me wrong not wanting people to know something very private and personal is still a very scary thing but when you analyzer how much something affects you based on time and how much you have moved on from it.
Will help determine how to deal with the situation should it present itself. And last but not least how do you confront her about gossip there are a few ways you can go about it, but I like the direct approach simply ask her and based on her answer you'll know what you need to know. But however you choose to do it be professional always.
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