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Dear Omar:
I just found out that someone that I'm interested in has slept around with more than a few people. I realize that there was life before me, however, I'm having a hard time separating his yesterday with our possible future. What should I do?
Didn't Mean to Turn You On
Dear Didn't Mean:
I have found that honesty is the best policy. Hopefully you still want to befriend this person and maybe if you sit down and speak with him and just let him know that you're not interested in that way and that you really like him as a friend and would like to continue that relationship as such.
Maybe he will be respective to that approach. No one wants to be the bumper or the dumpy.
But we all have to go through it. When you do it make an evening of it and make it light and fun it's easier to give bad news when you're having a good time.
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Dear Omar:
I met this guy on the internet we talked for several days back and forth on this dating site, By the time we met face to face he was calling me baby.
I'm uncomfortable with that I don't feel we have known each other long enough for him to be addressing me in such a way, not to mention I believe that there is a conversation that we should have before we start addressing each other as such he's a nice guy and I do like him I'm just not sure if we are at this point in our friendship. Should I just call it off?
Don't know what to do
Dear Don't know:
Well this is a very touchy subject and one you will need to address right away. Your friend is comfortable with calling you baby maybe because he may not know the seriousness such a word can mean. Some people use the words like saying hello. you will have to start with letting him know that you
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Dear Omar:
I have been talking to a guy for not even a week. He wants to be in a committed relationship and although that's what I want but unlike him I realize things like a relationship takes time.
He's already calling me baby and wants to hear from me everyday I have been up front with him and told him that a commitment comes with time but he is just seeing and hearing what he wants. I like him but I don't think its going to work.
Not Ready
Dear Not Ready:
I'm afraid your going have to do the one thing you do not want to do and that's just end your situation with him.
If he can't understand that you're not ready for a committed relationship then there is no reasoning with him. My suggestion would be to do it sooner than later.
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Dear Omar:
I of lately had been in the mood to make love. Passionate, sensual love. I love atmosphere lighting the fire place a glass of wine, good music, and good company and let the night set itself. The problem lies in that I am single, and men my age are only interested in the wham! Bam! Like any other guy I like that but there is more to sex than that isn't there?
Tired of the wham! Bam!
Dear Tired:
You are looking for a mature crowded. You have grown up and graduated from school but you are still good friends with the senior classes 5 years later.
Meaning your hanging out with guys that aren't on your level of maturity. You should try finding more mature men. Men that are like mind and share your love for more passionate love making. Try other avenues outside of bars.
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